Hi Skyward!
Welcome - I'm so glad you found us! Wow - brain and intestines! No wonder you are getting flak. You don't deserve it. Don't worry about testing being bad for her, she will probably have a wonderful time.
When would the screening be?
Do you have an local folks who could come over and hang out with her during the day if you keep her home?
Does she have any friends at school still?

This does happen, and it is scary! ((hugs))
Grinity

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