My son is about 6 months older than yours, nowhere as high [1] on the gifted scale, and got a formal diagnosis of Asperger's last spring. We are struggling daily with similar issues (including nagging worries about stealth dyslexia, although he is currently reading at or above grade level in 2 of his 3 languages).

And I finally (stupid blinking envelope) saw your PM. More there in French...





[1] although after reading another post on the DAS-II in the archives it is possible that his verbal IQ on that test, with tests administered at a lower than recommended level (because of the multilingual issue?) but still well within the norming scale *might* add up to ~145. His VIQ on the WISC was 99 confused