Mine has similar issues, it was actually the school that suggested these may be traits of a gifted child. They did ask us to take her in for a psych eval to rule out ADHD, who did eventually assess her as being gifted. He actually recommended that we take her to see a local gifted specialist to help her with this and some other issues that she has resulting from her giftedness. Shame we can't afford it now that our insurance company won't cover it.