You probably already looked at the amazon excerpt, but just in case here is the "Transforming" book excerpt link on Amazon.
I am currently reading the workbook, the ideas seem like they may help. I have tried the practice a bit (not really started full force yet).
But I do see good responses on the few times I have tried not to give energy to negative behaviors, and praise on positive behaviors.
http://www.amazon.com/Transforming-Difficult-Child-Nurtured-Approach/dp/0967050707/ref=sr_1_sc_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1324428929&sr=8-2-spell#reader_0967050707">http://www.amazon.com/Transforming-Difficult-Child-Nurtured-Approach/dp/0967050707/ref=sr_1_sc_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1324428929&sr=8-2-spell#reader_0967050707
