You are completely logical - this is clearly a good idea - I am just feeling grouchy, and I'm getting tired of the fight - finally got my first one squared away - thought my second would be easy since he is not as out there as his sister. I am just not a confrontational person, but at the same time, why in the world does getting an appropriate education have to be such a friggin' batttle all the time? Sorry getting OT on my own thread here.