Dottie, is this the video you are looking for?
http://mathprize.atfoundation.org/archive/2009/rusczykThe quote you posted rang a bell and I think that it was from the lecture I linked. I heard someone say recently that the way math is being taught in school is how to answer questions not question answers. That may be more cutesy than totally accurate in that problem solving isn't solely questioning answers, but I do agree that math instruction would benefit from some tweaking.
I've posed to dds that the formulas, etc. that they are learning are tools in a toolbox. Their job is to have the problem solving skills to be able to look at a word problem, for instance, and be able to figure out which of the tools they have can be used to solve that problem. You can have all the tools in the world, but if you don't know when and where to use them, they aren't a lot of good.