NDgal: This is a good example of the kind of pacification I mentioned before.
I tried a sticker sheet today for a " reward" and it went better but still melted down cause she wanted to pass out papers and I did it first. I let her do the rest of her friends and she threw the papers at me so I just finished it and that made her more bad. I did talk to after her melt down and told her that its ok to get mad but its not ok to act this way. She says " ok" to me everytime but still melts down when its not her way. Same way at home.
I'm not suggesting you spank your daughter in front of the class. I'm just suggesting that whenever she behaves this way, it never results in her getting what she wanted.
