Maybe this isn't helpful Jamie but I'll toss it out... When we were in the worst of sleep deprivation with a poorly sleeping child, I really could barely think straight. If there was an obvious solution it would not have been obvious to me because I could barely think sequentially let alone entertain creative solutions. So, as hard as it may be, I would encourage you to remember people who care about you probably legitimately feel bad for the situation you are in and they are trying their best to help.
