Hi Newmom

Thanks for responding. I am actually taking courses and plan on returning to work soon, but still feel that I didn't do as much as I "should" have or wanted to do. I know my life isn't over, but it sure would have been easier if I had made a few better choices.

I think my situation is more consuming right now because children are young and close together and my DH is gone almost all the time and we don't have family around to help, so I basically never go anywhere without my children. I need to take the leap and try a babysitter some day...