My parents, caring only about academics and classical opera, were a little oblivious to social norms in our geographic area. As such, my mom did my hair care until I was about 13. I was also dressed too child-like for some years when other kids (girls) had moved on.
OMG! My mother SEWED MY CLOTHES until I was fifteen! AAAAAAAAAGH! Not the best way to help a socially awkward child! I still can't think about those dorky outfits without cringing. She really meant well, but.......
I like the idea of "silently" helping my son to be more comfortable. I'm already thinking of things I can do without making him even more self-conscious.
