In my research for possible causes (and more particularly possible solutions) for my DD17's "writing hang ups" I came accross this article: http://www.ldonline.org/article/6114 on NVLD that totally describe her:

Very early speech and adult like verbal skills

Reading well by the age of 3

Diagnosed as gifted at every school

A wee bit accident prone

Awkward social skills

Threats, punishments, rewards don't work

I never in a million years would have suspected a learning disability in my DD, she always performed way above grade level. I wish someone would have pointed me to this information 7 years ago as it sounds like with proper care we could have avoided a lot of damage to her psyche (and my sanity).