intparent, that sounds like a great idea with the virtual post-its. We don't have a mac but I'll bet there is something out there for her PC. She did try post-its on her bedroom wall with some success... but they would randomly fall off and slide to never-land behind her bed.

Grinity, thanks! That's interesting about rc, I'm bookmarking it for when I get really serious about becoming a better person :-).

Thanks BonusMom, "Late, Lost and Unprepared" is now on my growing book list...I am developing quite the library! We need a "book exchange" site for those of us who want to help/understand our children without going broke!