I will add my voice to the previous posters. My son had the same problems in preK and K (had to sit on a chair while others were on the floor, considered over-exuberant in the ball pit, yadda yadda yadda) and finally in a gifted school in 2nd grade he is able to fit in and be accepted.

Everyone told me it would improve and it HAS, but I know how you feel when teachers and staff tell you that your kid is out of control (or whatever.) Nan