I fight it all day long. You aren't alone!! And when DD does make mistakes I just want to swoop right in and fix it because it honestly makes my teeth itch when things are not just so. I like to think that I am doing a really good job at keeping it all inside. DD is super anxious and doesn't need any help feeling that way. I can relate to her because I put obscene amounts of pressure on myself and never feel satisfied with what I do. It is not a matter of just changing it. Perfectionism is hard-wired. You just have to learn to deal with it.