When my DD4 was younger, I was great at not correcting her, praising her, and allowing her to color out of the lines metaphorically and literally..
Is it just a one-way street? I remember thinking my mother was so beautiful and hating it when she picked her nose or burped. I was very young. My boy's similar. If my hair's messy he brings me a brush and a ponytail. Just asking to see if she naturally inherited your taste for things to be "just right". Doesn't she have high expections and pride in you as well? High expectations are great. That's one thing. But where do you draw the line from becoming a nag?