Shari,
I second the private OT route. If you can get insurance to cover it, its a great resource.
DD is way more physically confident after a few months in private OT that focused on balance, coordination, and vestibular stimulation. If her school hours had not changed, we would still be doing OT. DD says it was the BEST after school activity she participated in last year. We are back in the waitlist of an end of day time slot.
A good private OT can send reports/treatment summaries to the school with recommendations as well as interface with school OT for more classroom support. I'm sure it is slightly different at every school, but here school OT is about handwriting and teaching kids to sit in their seats.
Chrys
