This is timely since I've been wrestling with "pushing" DD8 to continue in choir. She doesn't want to but I think music is a meaningful part of her education. DH and I had little to no musical training and it seems like we missed out on an important opportunity. Choir offers a number of benefits over an instrument (price, time and practice) but she tried it last year and doesn't want to continue this year. Part of me wants to just drop it and save shuttling to rehearsal each week. Another part of me feels like a musical illiterate who doesn't want her to follow in my footsteps. Advice?