Grinity,
Thanks for the terrific resources, they are very helpful. I will def. keep an eye on the BIQ program - that sounds like just what I am looking for.
My DS is fine with age peers, until he starts to talk about chemistry, or math, or mindstorms, and then, well you all know what happens - either the other child's eyes glaze over, they think he is odd, or they make an effort to understand but just can't keep up and he ends up getting frustrated. Luckily, he has a few friends in our area who are in a similiar situation, unfortunately their focus tends to be less in science/math.
Honestly, alot of getting together would be for me. I just can't talk about my DS and his issues much around here - not to mention it is so hyper competitive in our district that it generally leads to unpleasant comparisions or assumptions.
Cat