When someone else doesn't like being told what to do, they call the other person bossy.

But really, your kid is just a kid and was trying to do something. Although she may not have realized the other kids didn't want to do it, or didn't comprehend. Not your kid's fault -- really, she is only 5.

Your 5yo probably may prefer to play with someone older who will understand the elaborate playing she is doing. Don't take to heart what the mom of the 3yo says. smile