Grinity,
The "testing" was disappointing.....wasn't really the wisc 1V but just an abbreviated cognitive abilities test. Arrrrgh! I asked him why she wasn't given wisc and he said that because she isn't showing any academic problems in school. Ironically, when we got home and her report card had arrived....straight A's.
I know she's not having academic problems, my point was to "use" the behaviors that come with gifted to her advantage.....in other words not to excuse them away but to give the powers that be at the school one explanation into her behavior.
So now I'm off to call her Dr. to find out what went wrong!
Thanks for caring, I'll post an update soon.