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This has been an issue for us for a long time and she still doesn't have any real playmates. We don't seem to go places where there are older children and I actually see my two year old wanting to play with older children more than I do my four year old DD. She does know how to play in a very young, silly way that wouldn't tip off any outsider observer that there was actually a really sharp mind hidden under her antics and she is having a playdate with an adorable three year old today. They connect on a silly, fun level, but their language is worlds apart, but she adores this little girl. Of course, she bosses her around and this child does whateve she wants and my DD loves being in control. My DD4 tends to gravitate towards adults more than older children. I actually feel a little sad for her because she does want to hang out with children her age and can connect with them on a goofing around level, but she has never ever experienced having a decent conversation or getting involved in more elaborate play with another child. I try so hard to find playdates for her, but so far, I've had little luck with finding someone who is a good fit. It is hard on me because I am her primary playmate and I know she needs to experience real peers.