thanks everyone. Well, we went today and after seeing some other kids coming and going, she actually seemed more contained and controlled (I feel bad saying that, but it did help me realize things could be much worse)so I felt better with just saying we met out goal of helping her be more confident climbing, balancing, etc. and just try to work her hard at home in order to tire her out a little (as if that is possible). The OT says she is just a highly energetic preschooler and that OT for sensory things is not necessary.