I think any parent with a child on the spectrum understands the grieving process. Please give yourself time to process the emotions. At the risk of sounding like Pollyanna, you are so fortunate to have discovered your sons needs (and his gifts!) so early. There is so much that can be done to help kids like your son and my daughter -- and the fact that you will be taking action early will give him such a boost.
I really do share your pain, but I also remain very hopeful about what the future holds for your son. In many ways, we found Juliet's diagnosis to be a bit of a relief (some might say blessing) because it helped us understand her "funky wiring."
Best of luck on your 2e journey, and just know that there are parents out there who understand what it feels like to walk in similar shoes.
Kristen
