I will take the summer to make the final decision but I will probally move my kids against their wishes to a new school. Current school situation is hurt them. (typical gifted story)
New school is for gifted and seems to be really good for them. It's 30 to 40 mins. away. No busing available. The kids shadowed there and did well but don't want to leave their great friends.
So can anyone help me with how to tell DD7 & DD9, why they need to do this? I would say the current school is a good one for many ND kids, but this is a better opportunity for GT. If we don't try it this year we might get shut out next year.
The kids have expressed lots of frustration this year but I don't think they get how it hurts them even though I have explained this. DS has gotten to the point where is rushing & less ambitious. DD is ready to take on challenges. I also feel a bit of guilt like they confided in me and now I'm using it against their wishes.
DH is not totally agreeing this is the best move but has agreed to send the kids to the gifted school. I keep thinking if DS was dyslexic or something with special needs everyone would understand.
Last edited by onthegomom; 05/14/10 07:15 PM.
