It can all be very confusing. For what is it worth, my DD3 has many of those traits you listed and probably more, and so far hasn't be labeled with anything "extra" but a part of me always wonders about some things since she seems different from the pack in so many ways. She does like many toys and isn't that indepedent, but is highly reactive, gets stuck in mental ruts (fixates), etc.

Last edited by TwinkleToes; 04/23/10 10:33 AM.