First to your A-D...yes yes yes! Affirmative on all counts.
Amazing that we've just met, yes? There are some strong common threads here.
As for the concerns - seems like #1 is analogous to 'Step One' admitted that we have a problem that the schools are not equipped to handle, and will accept responsibility for our children's education. Well Done!
As for #2 and #3, is a private evaluation in the cards? Meanwhile I would read up on 'Unschooling' - a great way to see the world even if you aren't homeschooling.
Keep observing her and writing here and being part of our community. It will help. Have long talks with DW, see how she feels about the whole thing too.
Love and More Love,
Grinity
