Also, I can understand a 9 year old think she is playing with boys, because they are just so "dumb" and easy. But I have known the most gifted women that become so stupid because they fell for a guy. Intelligence rarely trumps over horomonal obsession.
Since I can name 4 national stories, just off the top of my head: The dentist that ran over her husband, the doctor in NYC that hired someone to kill her ex, the professor that killed her boss because of a bad review, the astronaut that tried to kill her colleague over a guy. These should all be women in the gifted category, based on their education and what happened to their brains, in their moment of obsession, entitlement and anger? I do not underestimate the effect of a guy that holds the attraction of an intelligence woman. She can become very stupid. Age helps a little. Don't need my 12 year old mixing it up with 14 year olds. Not going to happen. I already see her at 5 chasing the cutest boy in class, because "he is so cute".
Ren