Zia's Mom,
Oh, how hard. Please give him a big hug - I can't even imagine how disappointed my son would be in that circumstance - it really is an awful lot for them to handle at such a young age. Did you feel comfortable when you spoke with them that they understood asynchronous development?
I agree with Grinity - I would go back and try to really clarify their concerns and see if they are willing to work with you.
As for options, I am not sure where you are located, but could contact your local reps for things like Destination Imagination, science olympiad, Math Olympiad, and see if they know about groups near you that would be open to including your son?
Best of luck and sending lots of good wishes your direction. Cat
