I couldn't avoid questioning when DS5 started school (and private school at that) a year early, but I always felt best about how the conversation went when I responded in a way that was honest and self-assured. I think if you're confident and positive ("I considered all the options and have no doubt that this is the best fit for him" or "He's absolutely thriving there, so I know this was the right decision for us") it tends to close down further questioning. It also helps to smile and look people in the eye. Being evasive or apologetic puts you in a defensive position that only seems to egg some people on. Just my two cents.

Or ditto what Kriston just said!

Last edited by MsFriz; 03/12/10 12:27 PM.