We had the easiest move in the world planned and My DS at 6yrs was very stressed about it. We moved within the same area so close that we use to walk out our backyard and into the walking paths. We had also gone to the neighborhood pool for 2yrs before moving. He just is not a child to do change easily.
My suggestions...
take pictures of your house inside and outside, put them into a photo album for your child. Encourage him to talk about the move and his concerns. If he can get out those big feelings by talking then he might feel better. Talking about this is probally the most important thing to do. Let him know what will be moved - clothes, toys, furniture,ect. Visit the neighborhood and the house a few times with children before the move. You could even write and illustrate a book about moving together. There may be some books on moving at the library for kids. Is it possible to have a playdate with a neighbor child before the move?
I hope this helps you.
Last edited by onthegomom; 03/11/10 08:10 AM.
