I need to actually tell my DH this some more.
You are the one doing the research, talking to other parents, seeing him among peers, doing Home work with him, observing how school effects him, taking him to doctor appointments, ect. So you are more qualified to make school decisions and can come up with lots of expert's advice to back you up. Therefore you are more qualified to make the decisions. Would he like to do the research to support his ideas? His decisions may be based on his life experiences but your are more qualified to support the final decisions. So he should be able to express his opionins and be heard but this is your job. He needs to have more faith in you.
I'm sorry this is so hard. I hope it gets better for you.
Last edited by onthegomom; 02/02/10 04:14 AM.
