Thanks all. I appreciate the kind words.
BB Wolf I hadn't thought about it from that perpective - it was a little cloudy up in my head so thank-you.
And to you to onthegomom, of course this happens in together families too (again I hadn't looked at it from that angle), I'm sure that must be even bit harder.
Austin there is a long history of that and you're right. Just when you think you're used to it and have developed a coping strategy along comes a bad day.
I'm much better now; after my vent and reading all of your positive messages.
Thanks
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