JJs mom,
I understand where you are coming from... I was just clarifying that I think the source of the problem is that the other parents would resent my dd moving ahead. I am all for helping the others learn and this is generally how I do things. It is just that sometimes I want her to move ahead at her rate for the simple reason of the amount of time and money that is involved in this committment. If we only spent a couple of thousand/ year, I think I would be more willing to let dd teach the other kids. In fact, she usually does teach them. However, I feel it is now time for her to move forward.