This doesn't really anwser your question but I'll share this story that may help here with challenging your daughter.

A neighbor girl is a good dancer. She puts on a dance show every summer at our street picnic. She choreograhps the dance with a bunch of kids and it's wonderful. I'm thrilled my DD gets dance lessons for free. And this girl gets a great experience.

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