My dd is in competitive dance, which requires many hours of practice/ week. She excels as a dancer (athletic and artistry). However, she has an incredible ability to learn the choreography that is much more advanced than her age group. I am sooo frustrated that her dance teachers will not allow her to move up in her age group for a workshop because her peers cannot handle the challenge of complex choreography.

This situation is incredibly frustrating because my goal is not just to raise a smart kid, but also to raise a well-rounded child. Has anyone else dealt with difficulties in extracurricular activities when teachers/ coaches insist on placement according to age rather than ability?