Thank you all. I have calmed down a bit and am going to just try to take it one step at a time and enjoy it. It's funny when you think you are over denial and then you see something like that and you realize you still where LOL.
I gave her the next assesment and she did not pass. She did get about half correct though. I but she had never seen addition problems, she had always just conceptualize them. So she really didn't have a clue looking at 3+2 etc. So this is good. I just ordered some 1st grade math stuff for her to work on, so it should be a good fit.
Going to see about the language arts assesment tomorrow.