This was a big issue in our house, but ordinary tube socks seemed to do pretty well. Needless to say that when I found a pair that was acceptable, I bought in bulk.

Another trick that might help is to turn them inside out.

There was a catalog of 'fancy' cotton clothing for kids that my SIL had to buy all my niece's socks from, but I don't remember the name. You are NOT alone.

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