I agree with no5no5. Just last night we went over to a friend's house and she has twin 3 year olds. I brought DSs Leapster so he could have that but he never took it out. He was content playing with all of the twins' toys that he'd never seen.
Just bring her stuff and take it out if she starts to get bored. I know that it's sad that we have to be like this but don't bring up anything that she's doing. I've had to learn to do that around certain people just to keep friends. Even now when people say "my son knows their letters, does your son?" I reply with "yes" instead of "yes, he's been knowing them since he was 1 and he's reading chapter books". People don't see to take that too well
I think it's sad that your MIL brought that up but at the same time some people are really threatened by children like ours.
