I agree. We got to the point where our particular school wasn't meeting the needs of our particular kid, and it wasn't worth the battle to me to try to eek out crumbs of appropriateness for him. We say "It wasn't a good fit" and leave it at that. But we also chose to homeschool, since it was just easier in our case.

You have to find a way to make it work, and everyone's way is different. If afterschooling works for your family, then do it.

Kriston