onthegomom,
I don't know that we have to tell our kids that school will not meet their needs. I don't think DS8 holds out any hope of that. What completely stinks is that he is already completely turned off of school. Now when I try to do something at home he is very reluctant. In his mind he spends 6 hours a day doing something he doesn't like and once home he wants to relax and do what he wants. So I don't think the kids would be surprised or shocked to find out what I am sure they already know.
...sigh...
