Originally Posted by BinB
Is it worth all the trouble, expense and upset to push for accommodation for our son at school, or should I just leave the situation alone? Will he be OK if I do nothing? After all, no one advocated for me when I was a kid, and it was hard sometimes, but I turned out OK... eventually...

Just not sure if we're doing the right thing...

Define: Accommodation for our son

A lot depends on what you want, what the school can provide, and what is best for your son. Are you looking for differentiated lesson plans or radical acceleration or something in between?