Is this situation, what would typically motivate a school for testing a 1st grader?

sibling: IQ, WJIII both 140, 99.6%

Parental concerns for future behavior problems

child stuffs feelings all day, upset after school

child's reaction to school: math too slow, reading babyish, writing answers ahead under blanks to figure out ahead of class
feels like preschool but no playtime

Not raising hand to give other kids a chance to answer

My goal is to figure out a way to ask that doesn't make them mad.
They don't want me to tell them what to do.

I really not sure what I want out of the testing other than knowing where she is and possibly DYS. I do think she is not where her brother is but I could be wrong. I think the process of identification can take a while and it might be better to be ahead of the game. This could also help with talent searches but the school would not test for that reason.

Last edited by onthegomom; 11/20/09 06:27 AM.