The school has already provided the testing for DS so it's not an issue if do they provide. It's an issue of will they for DD? or under what situations
Simply ask the school what they need to see from your daughter before they provide the same services they extended to your son.
Or, to turn it around, what ultimately led to them providing the assessment for your son?
On our end, I'm not going to say boo about my daughter until I see some of the same issues with her. I don't want to put the school through the time & expense, or her through the hoops, until the need arises.
I've read about the studies showing sibs within 10 points or so of each other, but so far our household seems to be ignoring that statistical figure.
