Would you be comfortable with her spending some or all of her day with older kids?
Best Wishes,
Grinity
Sounds like she has enough Emotional Intelligence to get herself into a heap of trouble. At least older kids would share some interests. I don't think that your goal should be for her to show more of her true self in her current classroom setting - that just wouldn't be safe. Perhaps to have a goal of having her in a classroom setting where it is safe for her to show more of her true self. KWIM?
Best Wishes,
Grinity