MON,

We have similar issues because we're currently homeschooling one and sending the other to public school with no accomodations. He may be 2E, may or may not wind up a DYS kid like his big brother, may or may not move to homeschooling in the future...

Different kids, different needs, different tools.

I think your point about intelligence not being all-important is the key point. I so agree!

Kriston