Her first present from her father was a cap from Harvard. She was still in the womb. She went to the first Harvard/yale game before she was 2 months old. The propaganda is strong. Not for Ivy league. Just Harvard. Yale is a four letter word in our house.
No offense, but Ren you sound like you are heavily invested in your daughter's future.
Isn't this a lot of pressure for a child and for you as well? Is it really that important if she goes to Harvard?
You had your heart set on Hunter last year. It was something you really wanted for her. She wasn't accepted in Hunter and you got over it.
I worry what math my son will study next year and if he has enough time to play, but I sure don't worry what college he will attend. He is only 7 after all. All I want for him right now is to be happy, challenged at school, and learn new things.
Just my 2 cents