Thanks guys - SO glad to know that I am not the only one going gray prematuraly from the ARRGGGGHHH moments with DS :-) CAMom - your comment/scenario was EXACTLY (almost eerily in fact) to what happened to us last weekend. We asked if he wanted to do A or B today and he did exactly what you said - chose one, then switched , then switched again and then ended with the exact same phrase - I want to do what will make us all happy...he was so honestly upset by the whole thing. He has no issues picking out his clothes for the day (but will be upset if his favorite tornado chaser shirt isn't clean) but when it comes down to HIM picking something that HE is involved with - be it a game or activity, he just looks so panic striken to make a choice - like it will be wrong - LOVE the suggestions and I will make it a point to try to help limit some choices to maybe take away his anxiety with everyday items and use some different phrasing when he is constantly asking me what he should do next on an activity. Thanks a ton!