She seems like a normal kid at school, and I'm assuming this is just early teen stuff. She has friends, but shes more of the quiet type. She has the germ-fear thing, but that's the main thing. She's the in one ear out the other type. I'll tell her something , she'll leave, come back later, and when I mention it she either has no idea what I'm talking about or she forgot to do it. It's not messing anything up, apart from these instances. She's a perfectionist in some ways and not in other ways (like organization stuff, her room, etc), but she loves organizing stuff the same. I'm just wondering if any of you guys have had teenagers go through similar stuff.