fears and perfectionism?
can she do her own cognitive behavioral therapy?
is she a logical type?

can she walk herself / or you help walk her through ... the how to master your own fear?

There is a choice in the matter. The choice to overcome it, etc etc

But yeah, one thing at a time ...

(I apologize if my suggestions are complete idiocy as I'm not sure if they're appropiate or if they come across tactless. My apologies if they are.)