hkc - I'm thinking this may be DD and that it's a wee willy wink too early.

Snowgirl - amazing bladder control! I'd love to hear your story about your ped's assessment of strong will.

Cathy -we've done absolutely everything you said to do. The gentle voice attempt and the pull-ups were introduced because she regressed so much it seemed to be intentional. We actually went from diapers to underpants with great success. Then the regression.

Thank you ALL for your responses!